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Hrvoje Simic
Banned
Avatar impression from a Harvard trained psychotherapist:
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I have had the privilege of seeing James Cameron’s movie, Avatar, twice now over the holidays. The first time I sat at the end of the movie with tears rolling down my face, not out of sentimentality, but because I had a sense that I had seen a work of art profoundly original, beautiful, true, and one that spoke to me very much as a woman.
When I looked at what I thought would be glowing reviews I found that even though an enormous number of reviewers thought the movie was outstanding and gave it a four to five star rating, many, maybe even most, described the movie as clichéd in some way. Comparisons with Dances With Wolves abounded. Reviewers spewed scarcely concealed derision at the “sensitive” white man who ends up going native. Avatar, apparently, is a movie that reviewers both love and loathe. The therapist in me got to thinking, why is this? How did the reviewers and I end up seeing such different movies?
I saw a movie where the white man loses and is sent home packing. Originality, check. I saw a movie about a group of indigenous people where the women were on equal, if not higher, footing with the men. Originality, check. I saw a movie about a world where connection is the highest good and disconnection is a form of insanity. Originality, check. I saw a movie where the deity is female. Originality, check. I saw a movie where woman both embodied fierce warrior and tender lover. Originality, check. I saw a movie where feelings and intuition must trump logical thought. Originality, check. I saw a movie that literally showed a planetary mind united with itself as a thing of splendor, power and beauty, a thing not to be used or violated. Originality, check. I saw a movie with a non-adapted script that creates a whole new planet, ecology and inhabitants. Originality, check.
This was not a movie of clichés. This was not a movie of good vs evil as so many are projecting. This is a movie about connection vs disconnection as the highest forms of good and evil. Let’s take a moment to examine this distinction more closely.
On Pandora all the creatures have evolved to have the potential for directly interlocking minds via the pigtail like “queue” of the Nav’i. The queue also bonds the Nav’i pairs for life in an act similar to but more intimate than Earth based lovemaking. Additionally, the planet herself is full of interlocking structures of consciousness that are united by and in the Goddess wisdom of Eywa, the deity of Pandora and the Nav’i. Eywa seems to be not only the sum of all consciousness that has ever lived on Pandora but has Her own awareness that is more than the sum of Her parts.
Daniel Siegel, MD, a psychiatrist who has pioneered the idea of interpersonal neurobiology gives speeches on the importance of interconnection to audiences as distinguished as the Pope and Dalai Lama. He observes that when the middle brain is functioning optimally, people not only feel a sense of peacefulness and tremendous wellbeing but also feel profoundly connected to themselves and others. He has proposed a scientific definition of spirituality as the awareness of the reality that we are part of an interconnected whole, a definition that has been widely accepted by researchers and spiritual leaders alike.
Environmentally, we lack the mechanisms for connection that James Cameron’s vision of Pandora provides. Being connected here on Earth is not just a matter of plugging in our queue to the nearest Tree of Souls. We need to cultivate deep sensitivity, deep empathy and groundedness to achieve the kind of connection the Nav’i enjoy so effortlessly.
Humans, especially of Western European descent, today are deeply conflicted about cultivating this connection. We want people to be sensitive to our needs and happiness without being sensitive to theirs. We extol the value of “interconnectedness” while devaluing sensitivity, as if being sensitive is a flaw to be overcome, especially in males. I used to call this “white man’s disease” – the disease of disconnection and insensitivity. It is, however, found to be rampant in every conquering culture. We cannot behave badly to another without first shutting down our sense of connection. Otherwise hurting someone else becomes injuring oneself, and attack is no longer an option.
Avatar wisely challenges us to go deeper, to examine our connection to our world and to each other. It exposes the folly of force without nobility, greed without consideration, and the hollowness of co-existence without connection.
Thank you, James Cameron, for making my job a little easier and my world a little more beautiful. I see you.
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